"He hates me and if we start fucking, other people will hate him and then we'll have so many issues and unless you want to spend the next few years guarding us, maybe don't encourage us to date." What? That seemed like a fair enough warning to give. Given everything. Last time he tried, it ended as it ended so it was probably just not a great idea. "We're not going to happen. As much as I want us to, we're not. I'm sure you're just heartbroken over that."